No Pain, No Gain. A Harmful Statement (To Those Who Suffer From Chronic Pain)

The term “no pain, no gain” was mostly used by personal trainers to encourage their customers to endure the pain of exercise in order to get fitter, which I understand, but it’s also used as an inspirational phrase that tells people they must go through hardship to reach happier times. The phrase being used in …

Tips and Tricks for Studying At University/College While Experiencing Chronic Pain

Since I first started complaining of experiencing Fibromyalgia symptoms such as chronic pain at the age of 7, attending school has progressively become more and more difficult. Now, 12 years later, I experience constant widespread pain and fatigue. Despite the constant pain that is undoubtedly made worse by me attending university, I still love studying. …

Dating with Chronic Pain: Long Distance Love

My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for a little over three years now. While that has its own challenges, what other couples typically don’t have to factor into the equation are “pain days.”My boyfriend and I share many things in common, we have lived semi-parallel lives, and one thing we completely relate to is …

How my Breast Implants Caused my Chronic Pain and I am Now Living with an Undiagnosed Illness

Not too long ago, I was a very active mom of a kindergartener.  I was also a hiking guide for a high-end fitness resort in beautiful, beachy Malibu, California, and I loved every second of it.  I loved being outside, running trails, hugging trees, and chasing mountains.  It’s hard to believe how much of a …